Today I brought my girl to Singkids play system at Changi Airport T3. Faith entered an enclosure with many big balloons bouncing around by fans. There was a boy playing alone inside when we entered. His mother was sitting outside. After a short while, I noticed the boy carried the big balloon and pushed Faith. Of course, Faith got irritated and complained to me. I attempted to talk to him when it happened the third time and this time it is very obvious he carried the blue balloon and pushed Faith. When I was about to talk to him, his mother came in. I then spoke to his mother on his actions. His mother then revoked "I was sitting out there and looking at him all the time. He didn't do anything to your child. In fact I saw your child tried to push the ball at him." I was shocked by what she said.
It is not just one occasion that the boy used the ball to push Faith. I saw him doing at least three times before I walked forward and attempted to talk to him. After she said that to me, she then asked his son and he then told his mother that he already said sorry which I didnt hear when I was inside. If he is really sorry, then why he did again and again.
No wonder there is an old saying "what kind of parents will have same kind of kids". A lying mother has a lying child.
I am not to be offensive to anyone. It is disturbing to see what happen and decided to write this post to remind myself our behavior directly influence our child.
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